Mother's Day PREP for next year

Hi friends and welcome new friends!

I started this post weeks ago!! It's May 31st I'm getting this post out!

I pray that you had the Mother's Day that was enjoyable to YOU! Me and one of my close friends were having a conversation on the topic of - how we as women allow men to treat us. Even though that is not the topic that I wanted to talk about I brought it up to mention that yesterday was Mother's Day which you already gathered from the title.

I was on FB and I saw some women mention that they were upset that their husbands didn't do anything for them and how some of the women decided to go off and get what they wanted.

First off this message is for the women that need encouragement for next year!

Please do not allow social media, influencers, friends, or associates tell you howYOUR man is supposed to treat you and how Mother's Day is supposed to go for you! For the first time in my life I decided I didn't want to dress up and deal with the pony show. What I did was put on my black 2 piece work out outift annd I did my eyebrows and that was that as far as my outfit goes. I had intentions on spending the day doing things that I wanted to do alone. My daughter decided that was not the case. After driving to two different spots that had trash parking we ended up at the sushi go round. For dinner I went out and had some ramen and I was in my sweats and a tshirt.

I want you to have an over the top or a basic Mother's Day. W/e you feel like doing do that! If you want your husband to do more for you write it down. Give your man a detailed list of what you want! And I know some of y'all are going to say "I shouldn't have to tell him what I want". But the real questions is why not? Even though God knows you in and out he still wants you to tell him your desires, when you place an order you have to tell the restaurant exactly how you want it or it'll come the standard way, and actually in almost every aspect in life if you want things done a certain way you must be specific and let the attending party know!!!

I am so serious!!! Write it down! Some of us humans need step by step directions and it is nothing wrong with that! We have to tell people how to treat us and moreso we have to show them how we want to be treated. Guys if you don't know what your spouse, gf, or fiance wants please just ask!!! Asking questions is how we gain knowledge! Your helpmate is specific to you and while Google or other people THINK they know what your woman wants it could be completely wrong!

WOMEN! Next year I encourage you to do what YOU want to do and not what society tells you to do! Make a list of the things that you want and pray over them. If your man didn't do what you wanted please let him know in a loving manner! Remember we are all different and what one person likes another may not! This applies to any holiday! Let a person tell you what they want.

As always I pray that this message blesses the people that it is supposed to and if you know of anyone that could use this message please send it to them.

Psalm 34:4 - I prayed to the LORD, and he answered me; he freed me from all my fears.

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